Author: Susan Adeyemi

Susan is a professional who works in business and organisational restructuring. However, over the past 6 years, she’s felt a heavy ministerial burden to reach the wounded through God’s word. After being in an abusive relationship, she sought the face of the Lord concerning how to repurpose her pain for the benefit of God’s kingdom. She believes she has been called into a unique position to reach out to people, particularly those who find themselves in wrong relationships. She wants you to know that God hears your prayers. He wants to encourage you to not give up or give in. He wants to heal the brokenhearted and restore you to your rightful place. He wants to bind up your wounds and strengthen you in His love and set you free. To keep up, follow my social media pages. Feel free to contact me below and sign up for our weekly letters.
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Overcoming People-Pleasing After Abuse: 5 Essential Steps

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Overcoming People-Pleasing After Abuse: 5 Essential Steps

Recovering from an abusive relationship often leads to difficulties in breaking the habit of people-pleasing. This article outlines five practical strategies: pausing before agreeing, setting boundaries without guilt, releasing fear of disapproval, advocating for oneself, and seeking divine guidance. These steps promote healing, self-worth, and healthier relationships.

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Dangers of Malice in Marriage

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Dangers of Malice in Marriage

Malice threatens the foundation of a marriage by fostering division, poor communication, and hindering forgiveness. It leads to bitterness and conflict, damaging intimacy and spiritual well-being. The Bible encourages replacing malice with love, kindness, and humility. Emphasizing grace and mutual respect strengthens the marital bond and nurtures a fulfilling relationship.

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Recognising Narcissism: Traits and Examples

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Recognising Narcissism: Traits and Examples

This article explores narcissistic traits identified in Psalm 10, connecting them to biblical figures like King Saul, Jezebel and Lucifer. It emphasizes that narcissism is both a psychological and spiritual issue impacting relationships and faith. Practical tools, including a checklist, are provided to assess unhealthy relationship dynamics and encourage reflection on personal experiences with narcissism.

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The Top 5 Steps to Attain a Healthy Relationship- A Practical and Biblical Approach

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The Top 5 Steps to Attain a Healthy Relationship- A Practical and Biblical Approach

Investing in relationships is crucial for emotional well-being and longevity. Healthy partnerships involve communication, respect, emotional intimacy, constructive conflict resolution, and shared goals. Research and biblical teachings highlight the importance of these principles, encouraging couples to engage intentionally for a fulfilling and joyful connection that reflects divine love.

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Signs of Emotional Abuse: What to Recognize

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Signs of Emotional Abuse: What to Recognize

Emotional abuse, a subtle form of psychological mistreatment, significantly impacts mental well-being, often unrecognized due to its lack of physical signs. Healing involves acknowledging the abuse, seeking support, establishing boundaries, and pursuing professional help. Survivors can rebuild self-worth and foster growth through faith and community, emphasizing relationships rooted in respect and kindness.