Author: Susan Adeyemi

Susan is a professional who works in business and organisational restructuring. However, over the past 6 years, she’s felt a heavy ministerial burden to reach the wounded through God’s word. After being in an abusive relationship, she sought the face of the Lord concerning how to repurpose her pain for the benefit of God’s kingdom. She believes she has been called into a unique position to reach out to people, particularly those who find themselves in wrong relationships. She wants you to know that God hears your prayers. He wants to encourage you to not give up or give in. He wants to heal the brokenhearted and restore you to your rightful place. He wants to bind up your wounds and strengthen you in His love and set you free. To keep up, follow my social media pages. Feel free to contact me below and sign up for our weekly letters.
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Mind Games and Control: How Abusers Manipulate Your Thoughts and Emotions

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Mind Games and Control: How Abusers Manipulate Your Thoughts and Emotions

The article outlines a five-step process to transition from bitterness to forgiveness after betrayal, emphasizing the importance of recognizing pain, bringing it to God, making a conscious choice to forgive, setting boundaries, and allowing God to redeem pain.

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When Love Becomes Control: Recognising Isolation Disguised as Care

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When Love Becomes Control: Recognising Isolation Disguised as Care

The article outlines a five-step process to transition from bitterness to forgiveness after betrayal, emphasizing the importance of recognizing pain, bringing it to God, making a conscious choice to forgive, setting boundaries, and allowing God to redeem pain.

All Posts, Healing and Recovery, narcissistic abuse

Divide and Conquer: The Strategy Behind Isolation in Abusive Relationships

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Divide and Conquer: The Strategy Behind Isolation in Abusive Relationships

In Part 2 of the series on isolation in abusive relationships, Susan Adeyemi emphasizes that isolation is intentional and a tactic used to create vulnerability and exert control. By dividing individuals from their support systems, abusers manipulate and distort realities, fostering silence and confusion. Healing requires reestablishing connections and embracing truth.